I don't think I was spoiled growing up. I have realized as I've gotten older that certain things in my life were easier than they were for my older siblings. But I think a lot of that just comes with being the fourth out of five children.
I had chores to do. I had to help with the yard work and garden in the summer. When I was a little older, I had a curfew. I had a job all through high school so that I could participate in the activities I wanted. My parents taught me good values and how to work. And for that, I'm very grateful.
But today I realized that my mother did spoil me rotten in one thing: watermelon.
Seems a little strange, I know. Let me explain. I remember maybe 3 times in my life where my mom would cut up a watermelon in wedges and have us eat the meat off the rind, spitting the seeds out as we went. With every other watermelon that came through our door, she would seed and chunk the entire thing and put it in a bowl in the fridge to chill (if it ever lasted long enough to get into the fridge). Then all we had to do was grab a fork and spear perfectly bite-sized, seed-free pieces for our enjoyment.
I don't think it ever really occurred to me that this is a rare thing to do, especially the seeding part. In the 7 years that I've lived away from home, I've attended many picnics where watermelon is served. But to my dismay, it's always either cut into wedges or chunks with the seeds still in it. I'm sorry, but after so many years of the way my mother has cut up watermelon, I just can't eat it any other way. It sounds a little snooty and perhaps a little lazy, but I don't care. I like it the way I like it.
Here's the problem. Whenever I buy a watermelon now, I have to slice it, scrape the seeds out, and cut it into the perfect size chunks for my little munchkins to enjoy. At 4 and 1 they have come to expect it, much the way I expected it of my own mother.
And so, I'm carrying on the tradition of spoiling my children. But I'm not spoiling them rotten. They still have to pick up their toys before they can reap the benefits of all my hard work.